Tuesday, August 22, 2017
Monday, August 14, 2017
Society and Sexuality and the unconscious rules they apply in our minds. Part One
From 'Sex And Eternalism' by Dennis C. Lee. ⓒ2017
Our sexuality, our libido, is the yin to the yang of our social nature. We have plenty of examples of what happens when either of those sides of our nature overly dominates the other; chaos on both ends. How then do we balance ourselves to survive?
We use our heads for the purpose it was made; to gather knowledge. The Eternalist not only looks but also uses EXPERIENTIAL knowledge, that is, knowledge gathered in a real, tactile way, as in having sex with others (masturbation might also be a way of gathering tactile knowledge, however it is more of a limited source, a closed circuit, so to speak) . It is not only the tactile experience that is valuable, it is the EMPHATIC value - the sense of feeling what your partner feels, getting into her or his skin by means of imagination and,... something else. What the 'something else' is will be a subject for a future blog, at the moment our issue is natural balance.
Sex is strong because it is beyond opinion. Knowledge is that which cannot be divided by an equal and opposite opinion. It is TACTILE in that when we feel it, our mental capacities are diminished temporarily in order to maximize our attention toward FEELING. It wouldn't entirely be true to say orgasms shut down all thought processes, but they obviously weaken them, temporarily. This is NOT to say SEX makes us stupid, quite the contrary, we bounced back having caught the gem we sought with greater insight and advanced perspectives. Sex is good, when balanced. Many excuses can be made for where our minds roam as we're headed towards culmination - all of them valid, I'm sure. Even and perhaps especially with a partner we're not totally in the 'here' and 'now' until the climax, where the real knowledge is. Sex is good because it is important, and not only because it produces children. In fact, on a human-centric planet, overpopulation can deliver a death blow if it's not put in check.
With society, as with sex, our minds will play tricks with the differences between reality and illusion. How to tell the difference is not a simple thing, it’s like asking a mirror to look at its own reflection. Sacrifices will always have to be made in order to have a rich and full sex life, and they all have to do with the concessions we must make to society, for the wellbeing and survival of our species. I say this not to frighten, order or restrict your life, but to prepare you for the future. To an Eternalist, the FUTURE is the only INEVITABILITY.
With society, as with sex, our minds will play tricks with the differences between reality and illusion. How to tell the difference is not a simple thing, it’s like asking a mirror to look at its own reflection. Sacrifices will always have to be made in order to have a rich and full sex life, and they all have to do with the concessions we must make to society, for the wellbeing and survival of our species. I say this not to frighten, order or restrict your life, but to prepare you for the future. To an Eternalist, the FUTURE is the only INEVITABILITY.
Tuesday, August 8, 2017
I am sending out the opportunity...
...for you to believe with all your HEART again, like a child. Eternalism is not a mere semantics game, it is a human attempt to find real (tactile, true, viable, verifiable, factual, physical) knowledge.
Perhaps you've been duped in the past. I was. Supernatural superstitions paraded before me as churchgoers bent their knees toward a wooden alter, transformed by their imaginations into a relic of an epic feeling, a bliss they seek to attain, from the promise of their parents, usually. And usually at a very young, vulnerable and trusting age, at an age when the questions are as important as the answers.
Ours is a symbol also. A symbol like a string on a finger meant to remind us - we have an appointment, perhaps we are reminded to do something, SAY something. Use these magic symbols as LANGUAGE. Your lover will fall for you not just for the way you look but also for what you SAY. Words are our paints, our colors, our finished canvas will be our statement.
Let's make our canvases have the greatest statement of ALL; the TRUTH.
Easier said than done? Often, yes. But let's look at WHY that is - why does an imagined thing often take precedence over something made of true information? Consider this; if you've read this far, you've been given a special inquisitive mind. That can't be a bad thing.
Let's go on an adventure.
Perhaps you've been duped in the past. I was. Supernatural superstitions paraded before me as churchgoers bent their knees toward a wooden alter, transformed by their imaginations into a relic of an epic feeling, a bliss they seek to attain, from the promise of their parents, usually. And usually at a very young, vulnerable and trusting age, at an age when the questions are as important as the answers.
Ours is a symbol also. A symbol like a string on a finger meant to remind us - we have an appointment, perhaps we are reminded to do something, SAY something. Use these magic symbols as LANGUAGE. Your lover will fall for you not just for the way you look but also for what you SAY. Words are our paints, our colors, our finished canvas will be our statement.
Let's make our canvases have the greatest statement of ALL; the TRUTH.
Easier said than done? Often, yes. But let's look at WHY that is - why does an imagined thing often take precedence over something made of true information? Consider this; if you've read this far, you've been given a special inquisitive mind. That can't be a bad thing.
Let's go on an adventure.
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